Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism
Does someone have to be alcoholic to have problems
from alcohol?
No. Even if you are not alcoholic, abusing alcohol can have negative
results, such as the failure to meet major work, school, or family
responsibilities because of drinking, alcohol-related legal trouble, automobile
crashes due to drinking, and a variety of alcohol-related medical problems.
Under some circumstances, even moderate drinking can cause problems--for
example, when driving, during pregnancy, or when taking certain medicines.
How common is alcoholism in the U.S.?
It is estimated that 14 million people in the United States -- 1 in
every 13 adults -- abuse alcohol or are alcoholic.
Are certain groups of people more likely to develop
alcohol problems than others?
More men than women are alcohol dependent or experience alcohol- related
problems. Rates of alcohol problems are also highest among young adults ages
18-29 and lowest among adults 65 years and older. Among major U.S. ethnic
groups, rates of alcoholism and alcohol- related problems vary.
How can you tell whether you (or someone close to you)
has an alcohol problem?
A good first step is to answer the brief questionnaire below. (To help
remember these questions, note that the first letter of a key word in each
question spells "CAGE"):
- Have you ever felt you should Cut down on your drinking?
- Have people Annoyed you by criticizing your drinking?
- Have you ever felt bad or Guilty about your drinking?
- Have you ever had a drink first thing in the morning to steady your nerves
or to get rid of a hangover (Eye opener)?
One "yes" answer suggests a possible alcohol problem. More than one
"yes" answer means it is highly likely that a problem exists. If you
think that you or someone you know might have an alcohol problem, it is
important to see a doctor or other health provider right away. He or she can
determine whether a drinking problem exists and, if so, suggest the best course
of action.
If I have trouble with drinking, can I simply reduce
my alcohol use without stopping altogether?
That depends. If you are diagnosed as an alcoholic, the answer is
"no." Studies show that nearly all alcoholics who try to merely cut
down on drinking are unable to do so indefinitely. Instead, cutting out alcohol
(that is, abstaining) is nearly always necessary for successful recovery.
However, if studies show that you are not alcoholic but have had
alcohol-related problems, you may be able to limit the amount you drink. If you
cannot always stay within your limit, you will need to stop drinking altogether.
If an alcoholic is unwilling to seek help, is there any
way to get him or her into treatment?
This can be a challenging situation. An alcoholic cannot be forced to
get help except under certain circumstances, such as when a violent incident
results in police being called or following a medical emergency. This doesn't
mean, however, that you have to wait for a crisis to make an impact. Based on
clinical experience, many alcoholism treatment specialists recommend the
following steps to help an alcoholic accept treatment:
- Stop all rescue missions. Family members often try to protect an
alcoholic from the results of his or her behavior by making excuses to
others about his or her drinking and by getting him or her out of
alcohol-related jams. It is important to stop all such rescue attempts
immediately, so that the alcoholic will fully experience the harmful effects
of his or her drinking--and thereby become more motivated to stop.
- Time your intervention. Plan to talk with the drinker shortly after
an alcohol-related problem has occurred--for example, a serious family
argument in which drinking played a part or an alcohol- related accident.
Also choose a time when he or she is sober, when both of you are in a calm
frame of mind, and when you can speak privately.
- Be specific. Tell the family member that you are concerned about
his or her drinking and want to be supportive in getting help. Back up your
concern with examples of the ways in which his or her drinking has caused
problems for both of you, including the most recent incident.
- State the consequences. Tell the family member that until he or she
gets help, you will carry out consequences--not to punish the drinker, but
to protect yourself from the harmful effects of the drinking. These may
range from refusing to go with the person to any alcohol-related social
activities to moving out of the house. Do not make any threats you are not
prepared to carry out.
- Be ready to help. Gather information in advance about local
treatment options. If the person is willing to seek help, call immediately
for an appointment with a treatment program counselor. Offer to go with the
family member on the first visit to a treatment program and/or AA meeting.
- Call on a friend. If the family member still refuses to get help,
ask a friend to talk with him or her, using the steps described above. A
friend who is a recovering alcoholic may be particularly persuasive, but any
caring, nonjudgmental friend may be able to make a difference. The
intervention of more than one person, more than one time, is often necessary
to persuade an alcoholic person to seek help.
- Find strength in numbers. With the help of a professional
therapist, some families join with other relatives and friends to confront
an alcoholic as a group. While this approach may be effective, it should
only be attempted under the guidance of a therapist who is experienced in
this kind of group intervention.
- Get support. Whether or not the alcoholic family member seeks help,
you may benefit from the encouragement and support of other people in your
situation. Support groups offered in most communities include Al-Anon, which
holds regular meetings for spouses and other significant adults in an
alcoholic's life, and Alateen, for children of alcoholics. These groups help
family members understand that they are not responsible for an alcoholic's
drinking and that they need to take steps to take care of themselves,
regardless of whether the alcoholic family member chooses to get help.